Finding Your People

A dear friend once said, "Forest Grove is a very special place, with very special people.  I think we knew each other in the preexistence and said, "Lets meet up in Forest Grove 1st Ward".   

We only lived in Forest Grove for 10 years.  In that time we met amazing people.  They are the type of people that start out as strangers, become friends, then quickly become those you stay up late with and even have family slumber parties with.  

2014 ~ Holly & Friends

They are that type that love you on your best days, continue to love you on your worst but are willing to carry you through those days.  There is always a hug waiting, with at least 3 good byes before you walk out the door.

Over the years I have come to believe in my friends statement whole heartedly.  Forest Grove and our ward was a very special place with a very special group of people we call friends.  Just over two weeks ago we lost one of those special people.

2015 ~ Disneyland with friends

This sudden loss has been difficult.  This kind man was one of those people that serves quietly in any capacity.  He didn't seek recognition, he only wanted to fill in when others couldn't.  A bright smile filled his face as he served, worked, hunted, fished, spent time with family and friends.  He shared his joy for living life to the fullest with anyone willing to participate in his crazy adventures.  

He was the guy that made you feel alright when life was tough.  You always had a friend when he was around.

Our friend loved his family fiercely.  There isn't anything he wouldn't do to ensure their safety, happiness and spiritual progression.  He loved them so much that their friends became part of his family.  We were so blessed to be part of his adopted family, especially our children.

This friend meant so much to us that we traveled home to say good bye.

In the process of preparing for our trip I heard from friends who were suffering at home and those who had moved away.  I was touched to hear other express how much they missed friends from Forest Grove.    This group of special people are now spread across Oregon, Idaho, Montana, Arizona, Iowa, and Washington DC.

Cannon Beach

We aren't strangers any more.  We are bound together no matter where we live.

I believe that people come into your life just when you need them or they need you.  Sometimes they leave and become part of the fabric of your life.  Other times you may be lucky enough to have found your people that you get to take with you no matter where life takes you.

Sean and I are the lucky ones.  We have found our people.  Our hope is that our circle of people grows as we continue to meet and enjoy new people in our new home.

A few of our friends